Tony Marston gives a nice intro to OOP:
The problem with OOP is that there is no clear definition of what it is and what it is not. Since its first appearance numerous people have expanded on its original definition (whatever that was) and invented new ‘rules’ which in turn have been subject to different interpretations. For each interpretation there are also many different possible implementations. There is no single definition, or set of definitions, which is universally accepted, therefore, no matter what you do, somebody somewhere will always find a reason to complain that ‘you are wrong!’
This article is highly recommended if you want to know the basics of OOP and also the intermediate level of OO programming.